No one is “born a woman" or "born a man" — I mean, really?! As far as I know, human beings only give birth to babies.
Before you even attempt to talk about someone’s experience and/or genital configuration and/or gender identity make sure of a few things:
- That it is actually your place to be discussing these things in the first place. [PLEASE give this one some serious thought.] and:
- That what you are saying makes sense and is accurate (hint: saying so-and-so was born a woman and then became a man does not make sense. and, well, just no).